One of the easiest ways to describe mindfulness to my clients is this. Imagine a picture where you are walking your dog. Your thought bubble has all the things you have to get done such as chores, to-do list, and multiple errands. But your dog’s thought bubble only has the walk in mind and is in the moment. This is how I explain mindfulness vs mindful to my clients. We have to be like the dog and be present in the moment. We have to be active and open to the present moment, this includes focusing on your breathing, body sensations, and our surroundings.

Here’s how I begin with including mindfulness into my daily life and hopefully these tips can help you too.

Start Small:

I encourage my clients to begin small, set a goal of 1 minute of being mindful and focusing on your surroundings/breathing. You don’t need a large amount of time to practice mindfulness. You only need about two minutes. Bonus points if you have a mindfulness goal on your watch, it can already provide a prompt for you to follow along with on the screen.

Mindful Breathing:

Throughout the day, take a few moments to focus on your breath. You can do this anywhere, whether you’re sitting at your desk, standing in line, or taking a short break. Pay attention to each inhale and exhale, bringing your mind back to your breath if it starts to wander. I encourage my clients to breathe in through their nose and exhale like a whoosh. You can even blow bubbles and focus on the shapes of them.

Mindful Eating:

In this time of technology, it can be easy to watch a show or be on our phones while eating. I recommend clients try this 1-2x a week. When you eat, try to eat without distractions, no phones or work during this time. Pay attention to the flavors, textures, and sensations of each bite. Eating mindfully can increase your appreciation for food and help you to slow down. It helps us to listen to our bodies when they are full.

Walking Mindfully:

This is my personal favorite and I try to incorporate this daily in my own life but this can be hard if you are pretty busy. It can be a great activity to include your family, friends, or significant others! Whether you’re walking to your car, around the office, or in nature, use this time to be present. Like I said in the introduction, be like a dog and be in the presence of nature. Notice the sensation of each step, the feeling of the ground beneath your feet, and the movement of your body. Notice how many animals you hear in the distance, observe the different colors or shades of the trees, or feel the breeze or sun on your face/skin.

Remember, mindfulness is a skill that develops over time with consistent practice. Be patient with yourself and approach it with an open and non-judgmental attitude. Regular practice can lead to increased self-awareness, improved focus, and a greater sense of well-being.

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In our fast-paced, digital world it can be hard to slow down and take a moment for ourselves. I encourage writing down our thoughts and start journaling to many clients. Journaling offers many benefits that can improve our mental, emotional, and well-being. Embarking on a journaling journey can be a rewarding experience. Whether you’re looking to express your thoughts and emotions, set goals, or simply capture moments of your life, here’s how I start encouraging my client to journal. It can feel overwhelming, especially when you have never journaled before. Here are some tips to start journaling and the many benefits of writing things down.

Select the Right journal:

First things first, find a journal that you like. It can be a bullet point template journal, colorful notebook, or even a digital platform. My personal favorite is my IPAD, thank goodness for Goodnotes. Having a journal that feels personal to you, you can even decorate it with stickers, quotes, anything that makes you feel good to want to write in it. By putting pen to paper, we create a safe space to express our thoughts, emotions, and experiences without fear of judgment.

Set Clear Intentions:

I tell my client to define their purpose for journaling. Is it for self-reflection, goal setting, creative expression, or a combination of these? Knowing your intentions will guide your writing and make the process more meaningful. You can even use a template journal, I have one that sets an affirmation for that day, priorities, and my goals for the day. There are so many templates out there that you can customize or even if you just want a blank page to start. Start with something that feels right to you and you can adjust as you go on in your journey.

Consistency and Comfortable Space:

It’s important to establish a time to journal. It can be in the morning to start your day or at night before bedtime to unwind. It’s important to find a time and stick with it to build the habit to start journaling. As well, the space that you write in is another factor to think about. Do you prefer a space without distractions? You can journal in the comfort of your bedroom, living room, or even your favorite local coffee shop. Find your time and place to start.

Start Small and Express Your Emotions

If you’re new to journaling, don’t feel pressured to write pages on your first attempt. Start with a few sentences or bullet points. The goal is to build a habit, and you can gradually increase the length of your entries over time. Be honest and open about your feelings. Your journal is a judgment-free zone where you can express joy, frustration, excitement, or sadness. Research shows that journaling can help reduce stress and anxiety.

Journaling is a process, and it’s okay if you miss a day or have shorter entries. Be patient with yourself and view journaling as a tool for self-discovery rather than a task to complete. Remember, there’s no right or wrong way to journal. It’s a personal practice that evolves with you. Allow your journaling process to adapt to your needs, and enjoy the journey of self-discovery and expression.

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5-4-3-2-1 Technique

One of my favorite techniques that I utilize with my clients is the 5-4-3-2-1 Grounding Technique, it goes as follow:
Take a deep breath and

• Identify and name 5 things you see- a chair, a pen on your desk, anything in your surroundings
• Identify and name 4 things you can touch- your feet on the ground, your bottom on the chair, anything you feel
• Identify and name 3 things you can hear- cars as they pass, people talking outside your door, even the ventilation system in your house
• Identify and name 2 things you can smell- could be your perfume, smell of hand sanitizer or the smell of old wood of your desk
• Identify and name 1 thing you can taste- this could be your morning coffee breath, gum, or your sandwich from lunch

I encourage my clients if you can’t identify all of the senses, it’s alright to go to the next one. If you want to feel extra special, you can name a positive affirmation at the end. “I am loved”or “I got this” for encouragement. The best part of this technique is that you can practice anywhere. I encourage you to practice these skills when you are stable, so when you feel unregulated, it can come naturally and you don’t feel panic if you forget a step. Taking deep breaths is an important part which leads to the next grounding technique.

Deep Breaths: 4-7-8 Technique

Before starting, find a comfortable sitting position and sit tall. To use the 4-7-8 technique, focus on the following breathing pattern:

• Breathing in quietly through the nose for 4 seconds
• Holding the breath for a count of 7 seconds
• Exhaling through the mouth, pursing the lips, and making a “whoosh” sound for 8 seconds
• You can repeat up to 4 times

The great thing about breathing is that it’s a portable coping skill, You can breathe everywhere and anywhere. Research shows that daily deep breathing exercises can lower resting blood pressure and reduce stress and anxiety.

Coloring or Drawing

• A simple repetitive activity, focus on the colors, the movement of your hand, and the texture of the material.
  Coloring offers a therapeutic and creative outlet to relieve stress and anxiety. Thus creating a calm mind and allowing yourself a break.

Many therapists utilize different techniques for different people and depending on the reason for therapy. As a therapist, I explore and encourage my clients to try different techniques and to practice them to find the rhythm that works best for them. There are many grounding techniques in the therapy world, which ones will you try today?

Sources:

https://www.urmc.rochester.edu/behavioral-health-partners/bhp-blog/april-2018/5-4-3-2-1-coping-technique-for-anxiety.aspx

Zaccaro A., Piarulli A., Laurino M., Garbella E., Menicucci D., Neri B., et al. (2018). How breath-control can change your life: A systematic review on psycho-physiological correlates of slow breathing. Frontiers in Human Neuroscience. 12, 353. doi:10.3389/fnhum.2018.00353

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Light Therapy:

Exposure to natural light is crucial for regulating the body’s internal clock and maintaining a healthy sleep-wake cycle. Light therapy, also known as phototherapy, involves sitting near a bright light that mimics natural sunlight. This can be particularly beneficial for individuals experiencing seasonal depression, as it helps regulate mood and improve energy levels.

Regular Exercise:

Physical activity is a powerful antidote to depression, including its seasonal variant. Regular exercise has been shown to release endorphins, the body’s natural mood lifters. Engaging in activities such as walking, jogging, or yoga not only improves mood but also enhances overall health, contributing to a sense of well-being.

Mindfulness and Meditation:

Practicing mindfulness and meditation can help individuals manage stress and anxiety associated with seasonal depression. Techniques such as deep breathing, progressive muscle relaxation, and guided imagery can be effective in promoting relaxation and improving mental clarity.

Social Connections:

Maintaining social connections is essential for combating seasonal depression. Even though the colder months may tempt individuals to isolate themselves, staying connected with friends and family provides emotional support and a sense of belonging. Social activities can boost mood and create positive experiences.

Healthy Sleep Habits:

Sleep plays a crucial role in mental health. Establishing a regular sleep schedule, creating a comfortable sleep environment, and avoiding excessive screen time before bedtime are essential for combating seasonal depression. Quality sleep enhances mood, cognitive function, and overall well-being.

Balanced Diet:

Nutrition has a significant impact on mental health. Consuming a balanced diet rich in fruits, vegetables, whole grains, and lean proteins provides the body with essential nutrients. Omega-3 fatty acids found in fish, flaxseeds, and walnuts have been linked to improved mood and cognitive function.

Set Realistic Goals:

Setting achievable goals, both short-term and long-term, can provide a sense of purpose and accomplishment. Breaking down large tasks into smaller, manageable steps can make them more attainable and reduce feelings of overwhelm.
Professional Support:
If seasonal depression persists or worsens, seeking professional help is crucial. Mental health professionals, such as therapists or counselors, can provide support, coping strategies, and, if necessary, recommend appropriate medications.

Conclusion:

Seasonal depression can be challenging, but with proactive measures and a holistic approach to well-being, individuals can effectively manage its impact. Incorporating these tips into daily life can contribute to a more positive and resilient mindset during the winter months. By prioritizing self-care, maintaining social connections, and seeking professional support when needed, individuals can navigate the challenges of seasonal depression and emerge with a stronger sense of mental well-being.

Sources:

Mayo Clinic: https://www.mayoclinic.org/
National Institute of Mental Health (NIMH): https://www.nimh.nih.gov/
Harvard Health Publishing: https://www.health.harvard.edu/
American Psychiatric Association (APA): https://www.psychiatry.org/
WebMD: https://www.webmd.com/

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